Is Strategy Important for Getting My Ex Back? | What is the Best Strategy for Getting My Ex Back?
The Number One Strategy for getting your ex back is to be emotionally stable. This is vital. Since emotional stability is the first factor above all else, within emotional stability comes three sub strategies:
Three key things you want to avoid when contacting your ex if you are looking for sound emotional strategy.
1) Avoid any negative emotional topic- don’t emerge from the no contact period with immediate references to the past breakup or past arguments. This is a psychological trap because you may want to start out with another apology or you think it is ok since time has gone by to bring up something you may have done “wrong”. Do not do this. Do not bring up negative emotional topics, ie: past arguments, past issues, or any past issue with a hint of negativity.
2) Do not expect an immediate return from your ex and do not react when a return does not come your way.